Favorite Things From 2022: The Lands Between, Sinister Skies, Disney Discussions, and Orville Peck

I had planned to post my “2022 Favorites” blog much closer to the actual end of the year, but then had two consecutive sad pet things happen that put this on the back burner. First my pup was ill (thankfully he’s feeling better now - probably ate something bad) and then last week my little hedgehog Barnaby got sick and passed away. He was an elderly hog (4.5 years at least, which is good for a hedgehog) and was held and loved right to the end, but it’s still very fresh and I’ll be sad for a while. 2023 isn’t starting great.

But my yearly blog is always something I enjoy putting together, so I wanted to finish it. Plus this year I decided to practice my digital drawing skills by illustrating most of my favorite things AND drawing all 68 books that I read. I somehow spent 42 hours on these drawings and dammit, they are getting POSTED. Other than the sad stuff right at the end, the big national and international BAD THNGS going on, and finally getting Covid in May, the year did have some good bits too: I went on a proper vacation for the first time since 2019, made art that I am proud of, carved a woodblock print that was displayed on buildings around the city, saw Patton Oswalt and Phoebe Bridgers live, won an Award of Excellence at the Lincoln Arts Festival and had some really good holiday art markets, went to baseball games with my dad, played cards with my mom and sister, and Minecrafted with friends. Ups and downs, like most years.

MOVIES

Nope
Jordan Peele’s excellent sci-fi-horror-western follows OJ and Emerald (Daniel Kaluuya and Keke Palmer), the children of a famous Hollywood horse wrangling family, who are trying to keep the business afloat after the mysterious death of their father. When strange things start appearing in the sky above their ranch, the siblings set up cameras in hopes of capturing video evidence and then things GO VERY WRONG. Nope is weird, funny, scary, really unsettling, and grandly epic. I love Peele‘s sense of atmosphere and vibe and the way his movies embrace surreal storytelling; not everything is explained, but it all adds to the feel of the film. Definitely the movie that stuck with me the most this year.

Werewolf by Night
I adored this B-Movie throwback set in the Marvel universe, that follows a group of monster hunters who gather to decide who gets possession of a magic medallion. Gael García Bernal is great and charmingly goofy as a mysterious hunter with a secret agenda and I really liked Laura Donnelly as the exiled daughter of the medallion’s previous owner. Plus there is a Very Good monster friend.

Everything Everywhere All At Once
Simultaneously the emotional story of Evelyn (Michelle Yeoh), a frazzled Chinese American woman learning to value her family and deconstruct generational stigmas while filing her taxes; a dimension-crossing sci-fi adventure involving a cosmic bagel; and a martial arts action epic, Everything Everywhere All at Once is a wild ride. Ke Huy Quan, who plays Evelyn’s optimistic and warm-hearted husband, is particularly wonderful and steals every scene he is in.

The Batman
Batman adaptations that I tend to like best are ones set in a super stylized Gotham and this is definitely the case in The Batman. Instead of grounding the action in reality, The Batman takes place in a surreally-gothic, claustrophobic, rain-soaked noir city, making the outlandish superhero antics work so much better. The movie follows a young, obsessive caped crusader as he tries to solve a mysterious string of murders and learns that “vengeance” is not the best motivation. Robert Pattinson makes an enjoyably melancholy and messed up Batman who has a good character arc, and the supporting cast is great.

HONORABLE MENTIONS
Guillermo del Toro’s Pinocchio
Bodies Bodies Bodies
Glass Onion


TV

I apparently just watched gay shows in 2022. And one weird anime.

Our Flag Means Death
Led by Taika Waititi and Rhys Darby playing super fictionalized versions of actual pirates Blackbeard and Steed Bonnet, Our Flag Means Death is a very silly pirate show that is also a surprisingly sweet love story. Steed is a wealthy gentleman and a dandy who is not cut out for pirate life, yet persists at pirating anyway. His comically chaotic crew is equally unprepared for the job. After bumbling their way through a few adventures, Steed draws the eye of the infamous pirate Blackbeard, who intends to kill Steed and take over the ship, but ends up befriending the crew and falling in love. (HBO Max)

Heartstopper
Heartstopper is the story of two boys falling in love in high school: Charlie Spring is out and dealing with depression and bullying; Nick is the king of the rugby team and really confused about his growing crush on his friend. The two leads (Kit Conner and Joe Locke) are wonderful and so are the other young actors who round out their friend group. Heartstopper was exactly what I needed at exactly the right time. It makes my heart happy. (Netflix)

Interview with the Vampire
Led by an extremely charismatic and monstrous Lestat (Sam Reid) and a nuanced, complicated Louis (Jacob Anderson), AMC’s Interview with the Vampire builds on the original Anne Rice novel in interesting ways. The episodic format allows more time to explore the toxic, obsessive relationship between these two men, and by casting Black actors to play Louis and Claudia, the show also puts a much stronger focus on racism and how tightly it is tied to the history of New Orleans. Bailey Bass, who plays Claudia, balances the difficult combination of impulsive teenager + violent killer + protective companion really well. I also liked the depiction of the journalist in the framing device as cynical and unimpressed; his constant questioning and deconstruction of what he’s being told by Louis brings in themes of skewed memory and unreliable narrators.

If you are interested in this one, I think it’s important to know going in that this show deals a lot with domestic violence and abuse and is emotionally rough; it isn’t as campy as the 1994 movie. I mean, it’s a melodramatic story about vampires so there’s still some camp. Interview also includes the detestable rape-as-character-development trope that so many shows rely on, and while the encounter is implied and not shown, it’s still very frustrating that this was added to begin with. So Interview with the Vampire is “good with caveats”, which is generally how I recommend shows anyway. (AMC+)

Jujutsu Kaisen
I’m not very good at finishing long shows and am only about halfway through Jujutsu Kaisen, but I wanted to include this one anyway because I’ve been thoroughly enjoying it. It’s your standard “high-school-aged protagonist gets magic powers and fights evil” shonen anime set-up, but the evil is really upsetting demons, the magic is sharing a body with a demon king, and the powers are acquired by eating a mummified finger. When hero Yuji gets these powers, he is recruited by a special “curse”-fighting school and given a choice to either eat more mummified fingers and gain more power so they can kill the demon king, or be sentenced to death immediately. He chooses to eat more fingers. This show is wild and constantly swings between cute school antics (one of the other students is literally a panda) and gruesome horror. I need to watch the rest of this one soon. (Crunchyroll / HBO Max)


GAMES

Elden Ring
Hands down my favorite game of 2022. I put about 120 hours into this behemoth and the feeling of beating that final boss was so, so good. I had a ton of fun (and frustration) exploring the seemingly endless locations of the Lands Between. I never expected I would be able to finish one of FromSoft’s notoriously hard games, but I did! I keep finding myself wanting to play it again even though I definitely DO NOT have the time.

Stray
Stray is a short, wonderful little game about a cat trying to escape from a strange underground city filled with robots and dangerous monsters. I had to obtain assurances before starting the game that the cat didn’t die at the end, so I will pass those assurances on to you; it hurts it’s leg briefly but is otherwise unharmed canonically (you can still fail some escapey/stealthy bits and “die” but in the story the cat is fine). I had so much fun leaping around rooftops, exploring, and getting into cat mischief. Be prepared though, even though the cat is fine, the ending made me cry extremely hard for story reasons.

Vampire Survivors
The retro rogue-like + bullet-hell combo Vampire Survivors was an unexpected highlight this year (those are real gaming terms I swear). The goal of the game is to try and survive as long as possible while your little 16-bit character wanders around the map being swarmed by monsters. It’s the perfect brain-off entertainment for when you just want to play something fun for 30 minutes and it hits all the joy centers of “just one more game” and “oooo loot”.

Return of the Obra Dinn
When the missing ship Obra Dinn reappears in 1807, an insurance investigator is sent to the vessel to figure out what happened to the missing crew. You slowly piece together this mystery with the help of a magic watch that lets you see the final moments of the people on board. These scenes offer clues to what happened and you use the power of deduction and investigation to account for everyone. The way the story unfolds is really amazing and I was constantly surprised by the turn of events.

Deathloop
Deathloop is a super stylized, 60s/mod-themed, time-loop shooter from one of my favorite game developers so of course I loved it. You play as Colt, who wakes up on a beach with no memory of how he got there and quickly learns that he is stuck in a repeating day. The only way to escape the loop is to use an arsenal of arcane powers and weird guns to take out eight “visionaries” in a single day. The gameplay is excellent, the environments are so much fun to explore, and I really loved the voice acting.


BOOKS

Look at all those books! In 2022 I pretty much stuck to my go-to reading genres: graphic novels, dark fantasy and paranormal fiction, lots of romance (particularly queer indie romances by LGBTQIA+ and non-binary authors), and yet more T. Kingfisher. I also read a number of spooky books, which is rare for me since I am very easily spooked.

Paranormal/Fantasy Fiction

Murder for the Modern Girl by Kendall Kulper
A Jazz Age supernatural mystery/love story about a mind-reading society girl who spends her evenings poisoning bad men and a shape-shifting morgue janitor with a mind for forensics who discovers her lethal hobby. A sinister gangster and a mortuary meet-cute bring the two together and they end up working to dismantle a network of organized crime and government corruption. I enjoyed this book and particularly liked the weird way the shape-shifting manifested. (young adult-ish paranormal)

So This Is Ever After by F.T. Lukens
So This Is Ever After follows a group of D&D-style adventurers who set out to fulfill a prophecy and defeat the evil ruler of their kingdom, with the story starting immediately after they do the defeating. In need of a temporary ruler until the rightful princess can be rescued, group leader Arek briefly puts on a magical crown and accidentally becomes the new king. With this inescapable royalty comes a caveat: the king must choose a partner by his 18th birthday (which for Arek is just a few months away) or he will literally fade out of existence. This mandate is extra complicated because Arek is hopelessly in love with his best friend Matt, but they’re both teenagers who are awful about expressing their feelings. So the two end up ignoring what is right in front of them and instead work together to set up meet-cutes with their other friends so Arek can fall in love with someone. Of course, things don’t go as planned and each meet-cute just keeps putting Arek and Matt in closer proximity. F.T. Lukens lovingly plays with and subverts romance genre tropes throughout the story in ways that constantly made me giggle and smile. (fantasy / adventure / romance)

Obsidian Island by Arden Powell
A surreal blend of Master and Commander and Annihilation, Obsidian Island follows naturalist Emery and ship captain James, best friends who find themselves shipwrecked on a strange volcanic island. As the two men try to survive lethally dangerous flora and fauna, a sinister force begins pulling them towards a colossal red tree in the center of the island. Obsidian Island is a non-stop barrage of things getting progressively worse for these characters, so while I was engrossed in the story, I definitely had to be in the right mood to read more of James and Emery’s Very Traumatic Island Adventure. (horror fantasy / adventure / romance)

The Faerie Hounds of York by Arden Powell
Faerie Hounds
takes place across the desolate moors of 1800s England, where magic is both real and dangerous. William wakes up in the middle of a faerie ring, with no memory of how he got there. Luckily, he soon crosses paths with John, a mysterious traveller who knows all about faeries and magic and is able to help him escape. But the faerie ring is only the beginning; it turns out William has been cursed and the two men have to figure out how to dispel the magic before it kills him. (dark fantasy / romance)

Nettle & Bone by T. Kingfisher
When her older sister is married to the prince of a neighboring kingdom, princess Marra is sent to a convent to keep her from having children that could inherit power. But after the birth of her niece, Marra discovers that the prince is an abusive tyrant and no one is willing to help save her sister from violence because of the tenuous political situation between the kingdoms. So Marra seeks the help of a gravewitch, who sets her on a quest to complete three impossible tasks in order to gain the power to kill the prince. Marra is joined on this quest by a number of great characters, including a possessed chicken, a disgraced noble knight, a dog made from bones, and a flighty fairy godmother. A great combination of dark drama and light humor that I loved reading. (dark fantasy)

Spooky/Horror Fiction

The Forgotten Dead by Jordan L Hawk
While there is a little bit of a romance in this one, The Forgotten Dead is mostly a solid and entertaining ghost story that successfully creeped me the heck out. Parapsychologist Nigel is desperately trying to get grant money so he can continue his research at a prestigious university, but when he finally finds a donor, the funds come with a catch: he has to investigate a haunted house with a ghost hunting group from the internet. Complications arise (of course) because Nigel has a personal connection to the house and Oscar, the host of Outfoxing the Paranormal, can actually see ghosts. (paranormal)

The Twisted Ones by T. Kingfisher
When her cruel, vindictive grandmother dies, it falls upon Mouse to clear out her house in rural North Carolina. But when she and her loveably stupid bloodhound Bongo arrive, Mouse quickly realizes that her grandma was a hoarder and there is something unsettling about the woods that surround the property. In one strangely uncluttered room Mouse finds the diary of her long dead step-grandfather, who keeps describing strange twisted beings in the trees. But surely that was just just his imagination, right? I was fully absorbed in this spooky story of constructed creatures, impossible locations, and creeping dread. (horror fiction)

What Moves the Dead by T. Kingfisher
A re-imagining of Poe’s The Fall of The House of Usher, What Moves the Dead follows a retired soldier who is summoned to the crumbling house of a dying childhood friend. What they discover when they arrive are possessed rabbits, a glowing lake, an abundance of strange mushrooms, and a mysterious illnesses effecting everyone in the house. I loved Kingfisher’s mushroomy take on the classic story and would definitely recommend it. (horror fiction)

OTHER FICTION FAVORITES (a.k.a. the other T. Kingfisher books I read this year)
Illuminations by T. Kingfisher
The Hollow Places by T. Kingfisher

Romance

The Reanimator's Heart by Kara Jorgensen
A fun take on period paranormal romance, Reanimator’s Heart sets the action of the story after one of the protagonists has already died. Felipe is an investigator for the Paranormal Society (basically the magic police) who has supernatural healing. Oliver is the Society’s mortician who is autistic and has the power to raise the dead. When Oliver finally works up the courage to ask Felipe on a date, he finds the man has been murdered and accidentally resurrects his crush. The two then try to solve the mystery of Felipe’s murder before he starts to decompose. A few plot elements didn’t quite work for me and I wish the setting had been fleshed out a bit more, but I still liked this one . (paranormal romance)

Strange Love by Ann Aguirre
When I picked up Strange Love, I assumed it was going to be an entertaining but forgettable alien romance (yes that’s a thing). But I ended up loving it. The main characters are Beryl, a wayward human with a disappointing life, and Zylar, an awkward alien who accidentally abducts Beryl (and her dog), thinking he is rescuing the prospective bride he met on the internet. Unable to return Beryl to Earth due to a computer malfunction, the two decide to make the best out of a bad situation and travel to Zylar’s home planet to take part in a gladiatorial marriage competition. Like you do. I was constantly charmed by the characters (especially Beryl’s dog who gains the ability to speak) and the rational way Beryl and Zylar dealt with problems. (sci-fi romance)

A Marvelous Light by Freya Marske
When Robin, a very minor baronet, is moved to a new office in his civil service job, he doesn’t realize there was a mix-up. Instead of being just another bureaucratic assignment, he has accidentally been set up as the liaison between the government and a secret society of magic. His counterpart in the magical world, Edwin, is anxious to get the problem fixed and have Robin replaced with someone who actually knows what he’s doing. But before that can happen Robin is struck by a dangerous curse and the two set out on a journey to Edwin’s family estate to find out what happened to the previous liaison. A Marvelous Light is both a magical adventure story and a romance and has a neat take on magic. It was one of those books I was literally reading in every moment of free time I could find. (paranormal romance)

OTHER ROMANCE FAVORITES - CONTEMPORARY
Fatal Fidelity series by Rien Gray
All The Feels by Olivia Dade *
(All the Feels is published by Avon Books, which is part of Harper Collins. The Harper Collins union is currently on strike which you can find out more about here.)

OTHER ROMANCE FAVORITES - PARANORMAL
The Sceptic by Lily Morton
That Time I Got Drunk and Yeeted a Love Potion at a Werewolf by Kimberly Lemming
Flos Magicae series by Arden Powell
Imperfect Illusions by Vanora Lawless
A Garter as a Lesser Gift by Aster Glenn Gray

OTHER ROMANCE FAVORITES - HISTORICAL
Sword Dance / Saffron Alley / Strong Wine by A.J. Demas
Missing Page by Cat Sebastian
Daniel Cabot Puts Down Roots by Cat Sebastian

Graphic Novels

Gender Queer by Maia Kobabe and colorist Phoebe Kobabe
A graphic novel memoir examining author Maia Kobabe’s childhood and young adulthood trying to figure out eir non-binary gender identity. It’s an incredibly personal story and the whole time reading it I kept thinking about a young person reading this and feeling less alone in the world. It’s really depressing that this book has become a lightning rod for people banning books at schools, because knowing other people have gone through something you are struggling with can genuinely save lives. (memoir)

Hollow by Shannon Watters, Branden Boyer-White, Berenice Nelle (Illustrator), Kaitlyn Musto (Colorist)
This charming modern take on The Legend of Sleepy Hollow follows teenager Isabel “Izzy” Crane, who moves to Sleepy Hollow with her parents and quickly learns that the town is obsessed with Washington Irving’s famous story. Everything is Headless Horseman related and the Van Tassel family is still around, with classmate Vicky Van Tassel being high school royalty. As the town prepares for the annual Halloween festivities, Izzy, Vicky, and fellow classmate and prankster Croc encounter the famous ghost for real, leading to an “it’s up to the kids to solve this mystery'“ style adventure. There is a sweet romance between Izzy and Vicky and Croc’s cinnamon roll energy is adorable. Berenice Nelle’s art and Kaitlyn Misto’s colors are particularly great. (young adult paranormal adventure)

Through the Woods by Emily Carroll
Through the Woods is a collection of 5 illustrated stories in the vein of Scary Stories to Tell In the Dark or Tales from the Crypt; that something-scary-happens-and-it-ends-on-a-dark-cliffhanger vibe. Emily Carroll’s illustrations are excellent and add so much extra creepiness. I immediately wanted to go make art after reading this book. (horror)

Real Hero Shit by Kendra Wells
A fun D&D-esque adventure story, Real Hero Shit follows a ridiculously pampered prince who decides on a whim to join an adventuring party and go on a quest. Said adventuring party isn’t thrilled to add the loud, constantly upbeat prince to their group, but he’s their only option. This is a short comic which focuses more on the characters than the quest itself, but that works since I liked all the characters so much and Kendra Wells’ art is wonderful and expressive. I really hope we get to join these characters on further adventures. (fantasy adventure/graphic novel)

Heartstopper Vol 4 by Alice Oseman
It’s always a joy when a new volume of Heartstopper comes out. This graphic novel series follows teenagers Charlie and Nick as they navigate school, friendship, families, and young love. Volume 4 focuses on Charlie’s challenges with an eating disorder and depression and Nick’s journey learning how to love Charlie without enabling unhealthy behavior. It’s a heavy point in the boys’ story and Heartstopper doesn’t rush things or introduce easy solutions for difficult problems: dealing with mental health issues is hard and Oseman (a young person herself) illustrates this beautifully from a teen perspective.

OTHER GRAPHIC NOVEL FAVORITES
The Heart Hunter by Mickey George and V. Gagnon
Lore Olympus series by Rachel Smythe


PODCASTS

Mom Can’t Cook! A DCOM Podcast
I’ve listened to each episode of Mom Can’t Cook! easily 15 times or more; hosts Luke Westaway and Andy Farrant discussing the very specific topic of Disney Channel Original Movies (“DCOMs”) from the 90s to mid 2000s is incredibly funny and charming. You don’t have to have watched the DCOM’s they dissect to enjoy the show (I haven’t). Mom Can’t Cook is easily one of my favorite pieces of 2022 media. Apple | Spotify | Libsyn

MUSIC

Orville Peck and Phoebe Bridgers
My 2022 soundtrack was basically just Orville Peck’s poppy/folky country and Phoebe Bridgers moody indie folk on endless repeat, separated by episodes of Mom Can’t Cook. I tend to hyper-focus on certain music and that proved true once again this year.

RANDOM OTHER FAVORITE 2022 THINGS

Simone Giertz Everyday Calendar
A wall mounted, light up calendar (in the picture on the left there) that helps you track an activity you want to commit to doing every day. I chose “doing all the dishes before bed” as my daily goal and this calendar genuinely helped me stick to it. I really struggle with motivation for things like this and was amazed how much of a difference it made.

Knitting
I’m still a knitting beginner, but I finished two blankets and some scarves which is pretty good!

Drawfee & Secret Sleepover Society
YouTube/Twitch channels that I watched constantly in 2022.

Pokemon Go & Wordle
Yep, I’m one of those Wordler people. I also got waaaay back into Pokemon Go in 2022 after not playing it for like 2 years.


ART

Still struggling to balance work, free time, and art. I don’t imagine this will change any time soon. I didn’t make as much art in 2022 as I would have liked, but I did make a few pieces that I’m really proud of.

Favorite Things From 2021: Feuding Sisters, Wayward Paladins, and Little Crows

In 2021 I achieved the nigh-impossible Millennial milestone of purchasing a house. Like, a HOUSE house. This was made possible by kind, generous people helping me out every step of the way and by the great local organization NeighborWorks which provides financial assistance and home rehab for first-time homebuyers. So with that all going on plus the general awfulness that is a second pandemic year and the dismal social/political landscape at the moment, a large portion of my free time in 2021 was spent zoning out watching YouTube instead of creating or consuming new things. I even had to bump my reading goal down and just barely made it by binging graphic novels the last two days of the year. I do still have favorite things to share though, just not quite as many as last year.

MOVIES

With covid precautions making my trips to the theater pretty rare and a general inability to focus on movies when at home, I didn’t watch much in 2021. This is doubly disappointing since I literally work at a movie theater.

The Green Knight
David Lowery’s surreal, dream-like interpretation of the Arthurian legend Sir Gawain and the Green Knight, chronicles a grand mythological quest for honor, through incredible imagery, visceral sound design, moody lighting, and a strong lead performance from Dev Patel. There is some frustrating bi-erasure from the original story, but overall, I love how The Green Knight distills and elaborates on the myth.

Dune
A big sci-fi space adventure with beautiful people and places, space magic, sand worms, and galactic politics. One of the few 2021 movies I watched twice.

The French Dispatch
If someone told you to envision the most “Wes Anderson” movie you can think of, you’d probably end up with The French Dispatch, an anthology film that tells three small stories under the umbrella of a group of reporters putting together the final issue of a fictional news magazine.

Minari
Inspired by Director Lee Isaac Chung’s childhood, Minari follows a Korean-American family trying to start a farm in rural Arkansas. All of the elements of the film - acting, cinematography, script, direction - are great.


TV

Ted Lasso
Ted Lasso is probably the show I got most into this year, sometimes watching it in the morning before work because I couldn’t wait until I got home. It has wonderful characters, a story that balances tropes and unpredictability, and a feeling of optimism even when things are bad. (Apple TV)

Loki
Definitely my favorite of the Disney+ Marvel shows, Loki has great design, a fun cosmic story, and Tom Hiddelston being charismatic as heck. Almost makes you forget all the people Loki murdered in the first Avengers movie. Almost. (Disney+)

UNHhhh
Each episode of UNHhhh has drag queens Trixie Mattel and Katya talking for 10ish minutes about a very random assortment of things tangentially related to a single topic. It is vulgar, R-Rated, and it brings me joy. (YouTube)

Arcane
Yet another show I started watching because artists on twitter were posting cool fan art, Arcane is the gorgeously animated story of a grand city full of sciencey-magic and the dark underground slum that it is built on. It follows lots of different characters and story lines, but the crux of Arcane is about two sisters who end up on rival sides of a growing conflict. This show is based on the League of Legends video game franchise, which I know absolutely nothing about, so there were some story beats (particularly the ending) that felt a little nebulous to me, but probably made a lot more sense for LoL players. I think it’s still really enjoyable even if you don’t know all the lore. Plus seriously, did I mention the animation? I binged the heck out of this one. **Riot Games, the publisher of LoL and a producer on the show, has had some big issues with a toxic work environment and harassment of female employees. While Arcane seems to be a fairly separate entity, and Riot at least appears to be making some improvements, the connection is still something to be aware of and it definitely muddied my enjoyment if the show a little.**

Fun fact: For some reason I convinced myself early-on that the stories set in the city above and the stories set in the city below were happening at different points in time. I was 100% expecting this to be revealed in a big twist at the end. This did not happen.


GAMES

Boyfriend Dungeon
Boyfriend Dungeon is a dating sim/dungeon crawler where you date your weapons. And it was unexpectedly one of my favorite games of 2021. You play as a young 20-something with zero dating experience who spends the summer in a small sea-side town populated with attractive and charming people who occasionally shape-shift into weapons. And, it turns out, you are a “wielder”, able to use these weapons (with their consent) to defeat monsters and traverse dungeons that are scattered around town. Over the course of the summer, you can befriend and/or romance a whole bunch of these shape-shifters and they are totally cool if you decide to befriend and/or romance everyone at the same time. Which I did. Content warning: the main storyline of the game involves themes of stalking. I think it’s handled thoughtfully, but it may be triggering for some players. (Nintendo Switch)

Ratchet & Clank
I’m a big fan of the previous Ratchet & Clank games and I had a lot of fun with the new installment Rift Apart, which continues the story of lombax Ratchet (sort of an anthropomorphic fennec fox) and his tiny robot-pal Clank, who go on adventures to save various planets/galaxies/dimensions. (PS5)

Death’s Door
A little like Dark Souls and a little like Legend of Zelda, Death’s Door puts you in the shoes (bird feet) of a crow reaper, sent out into the world to collect souls, unlock a mysterious door, and fight lots of enemies. The gameplay of Death’s Door is super fun and occasionally very challenging (the final boss fight took me two days). The character design is also a highlight, especially the charmingly adorable crows. (Xbox/PC)

Assassins Creed: Valhalla
In AC: Valhalla you play as the viking warrior Eivor, who is helping their clan establish a foothold in medieval England and dealing with the simmering conflict between Assassins and Templars. The gameplay is polished and fun and I spent a lot of time just wandering around the vast game gathering collectibles. (Xbox/PS/PC)

OTHER FAVORITES
Psychonauts 2
Picross S6
Tetris99
Kitty Letter
Concrete Genie
Animal Crossing New Horizons: Happy Home Paradise


A large number of the books I read in 2021 were from my regular pool of favorite authors who I’ve mentioned many times before: TJ Klune, T Kingfisher, Alexis Hall, Allie Therin, Rachel Reid, Roan Parrish, Jordan L Hawk, KJ Charles, and Cat Sebastian. If they write a book in a given year, I will be reading it immediately.

BOOKS - FICTION

Under the Whispering Door by T.J. Klune
Wallace, a cold, uncaring lawyer, finds himself stuck at a way-station for troubled ghosts after he suffers a heart attack and dies. The residents of the way-station (which is actually a tea house) include soft-spoken ferryman Hugo, new reaper Mei, and Hugo’s ghostly grandfather and dog. As Wallace learns to accept his death and come to grips with a life poorly lived, he grows and changes in the best ways while bittersweetly falling in love with the still living ferryman. It took me a little while to get into the book but by the end I was a sad-sobbing/happy-sobbing mess. (Fantasy/Fiction)

The Starless Sea by Erin Morgenstern
This one is hard to sum up; it is stories upon stories, interwoven together in complex, nebulous ways. Starless Sea follows Zachary, a grad student who picks up a strange book in the library and discovers one of the chapters is about his childhood. Interspersed with Starless Sea’s main story are a number of fables, fairy tales, and journal entries that connect in obvious and less-obvious ways. In an attempt to figure out how an old book from the library can specifically describe his own life, Zachary ends up on a strange adventure that takes him to a magical place outside of time where all stories are kept. There he meets a number of people working to protect the stories, and another group trying very hard to destroy it. (Fantasy/Fiction)

A Wizard’s Guide to Defensive Baking by T Kingfisher
14-year-old Mona works in her aunt’s bakery, which is great since she is a wizard whose magic only works on baked goods. Mona is thrust into a dangerous series of events when she finds a dead girl in the bakery and is promptly accused of murder. An assassin is roaming the streets attacking magic people, a looming threat is approaching the city, and Mona and her bread-based-magic might be the only person who can save the day. Just the right combination of darkness, kindness, optimism, and melancholy - I got almost everyone in my family to read it. (Young-Adult-ish Fantasy)

Paladin’s Strength and Paladin’s Hope by T. Kingfisher
You know those books that you are sad to finish because it means you have to stop spending time with a character or setting that you’ve fallen in love with? T. Kingfisher’s Saints of Steel series is like that for me. The books follow a group of paladins whose lives are thrown into upheaval when their deity mysteriously dies. A wonderful blend of fantasy and romance, each book in the series adds to the larger story but is also its own adventure. Paladin’s Strength follows paladin Istvhan, who is working as hired muscle for a convoy traveling through hostile territory. Not long into the journey he crosses paths with Clara, a tall, muscular nun in search of her recently kidnapped sisters. But Clara has a secret and there is more to Istvhan’s story than he’s letting on and then things get complicated.

Paladin’s Hope moves on to paladin Galen, a wonderfully dashing red-head who showed up frequently in the earlier stories. When dead bodies with baffling wounds start showing up on the banks of the river, the city watch is happy to brush them off as unfortunate accidents. But Galen and Earstripe, the only gnole (aka anthropromorphic badger) member of the city watch, are unconvinced and seek the help of Piper, a lich-doctor (aka fantasy coroner). While searching for answers, the trio ends up trapped in an elaborate death maze, each room more dangerous and deadly than the last. A death maze isn’t the most romantic of locations, but Galen and Piper find themselves falling in love while trying to survive peril and cope with traumatic emotional pasts.

If you are interested in these books I’d definitely recommend starting with Paladin’s Grace and it probably wouldn’t hurt to also read the stand-alone Swordheart (featuring some characters that pop up later in Saints of Steel). Maybe just read everything T. Kingfisher has written just to be safe. (Fantasy Adventure/Romance)

BOOKS - ROMANCE

Seducing the Sorcerer by Lee Welch
Fenn Todd is a homeless drifter, barely surviving by taking whatever work he can find. After doing some backbreaking daily labor at a strange farm, Fenn is cheated into accepting payment not in money or food, but in the form of some sackcloth shaped sort of like a horse. But after walking away with this pile of rags, the rags start behaving very much like a living horse. A living horse that can also fly. So this magical sackcloth horse leads Fenn to the fabled black tower of Morgrim, the kingdom’s terrifying sorcerer who is dealing with some big problems of his own. Seducing the Sorcerer, as you can probably guess from the title, is a romance as much as it is a fantasy story, and Fenn falls hard for the prickly magician. This book instantly drew me in and I loved the strange, rich world of magical flying horses and ensorcelled towers covered in unending rain. (Fantasy Romance)

Rosaline Palmer Takes the Cake by Alexis Hall
Single mother Rosaline is having trouble making ends meet and decides to enter a reality TV baking competition (a la Great British Bake Off) in hopes of winning the cash prize. On her way to the show, Rosaline has a meet-cute with Alain, a fellow contestant who seems to be everything she’s looking for in a romantic partner. As the competition (and their relationship) progresses, Rosaline builds friendships with the other bakers, including shy, blue-collar Harry, and begins to question the things she always thought she was supposed to want. Alexis Hall is such a good writer, and no matter if you are reading one if his spicy romances or his more “general audiences” books like Rosaline Palmer or Boyfriend Material, you are sure to get a story with a charming narrative voice, great humor, and characters to root for. (Contemporary Romance/Fiction)

Wonderstruck and Proper Scoundrels by Allie Therin
Book three in Allie Therin’s wonderful Magic in Manhattan paranormal romance series, Wonderstruck completes the story of Arthur, the wealthy son of a political family who has devoted his life to helping rid the world of dangerous supernatural relics, and Rory, a powerful psychic trying to control his currently uncontrollable magic. Lots of storylines from the previous books come together and we finally meet the villain who has been pulling all the strings. A really fun series.

A Magic in Manhattan spin-off, Proper Scoundrels follows two side characters from the previous books, pairing snooty, hard-to-love aristocrat Lord Fine with, as Therin excellently puts it, “dangerous marshmallow” Sebastian, who is dealing with lots of guilt over his actions from earlier in the series. When Lord Fine gets embroiled in some magical goings-on, the two have to go into hiding at an empty country estate. Oh no! I sure hope they don’t accidentally fall in love. (Paranormal 1920s Romance)

OTHER ROMANCE FAVORITES - CONTEMPORARY
Role Model by Rachel Reid
The Lights on Knockbridge Lane by Roan Parrish
Best Laid Plans by Roan Parrish
Spoiler Alert by Olivia Dade
The Princess Trap by Talia Hibbert

OTHER ROMANCE FAVORITES - PARANORMAL
The Quiet House by Lily Morton
Unseen by Jordan L Hawk
Blind Tiger by Jordan L Hawk

OTHER ROMANCE FAVORITES - HISTORICAL
Peter Cabot Gets Lost by Cat Sebastian
The Queer Principals of Kitt Webb by Cat Sebastian
Subtle Blood by KJ Charles
The Gentle Art of Fortune Hunting by KJ Charles

BOOKS - YA

In Deeper Waters by F.T. Lukens
17-year-old Prince Tal sets sail for the coming-of-age tour of his family’s kingdom, but almost immediately encounters a complication when his crew finds a sinking ship, a chest full of treasure, and a mysterious prisoner named Athlen. The two end up on a big adventure involving mermaids, secret magic, kidnapping, pirates, political machinations, a sea witch, and some smooching. I loved this book. (YA Fantasy Adventure/Romance)

Iron Widow by Xiran Jay Zhao
A “grim dystopia” sort of YA book, Iron Widow is set in a patriarchal kingdom constantly under attack from strange metallic beasts. The kingdom fights these enemies with giant robots called Chrysalises, piloted by young men and powered by the mental energy of concubines, young women who usually don’t survive the process. In an attempt to avenge the death of her sister, 18-year-old Zeitan volunteers as a concubine so she can assassinate to the pilot responsible for her death. But when Zeitan uses the pilot-concubine mental link to kill the pilot and then unexpectedly survives, she becomes a liability for the kingdom. Too precious a resource to kill but too dangerous to the patriarchy to be allowed to live, she is paired with Li Shimin, the kingdom’s most feared and powerful pilot, who will surely overpower Zeitan when they connect, right?

Surviving brutal oppression and constant attacks, Zeitan, Shimin, and Zeitan’s childhood friend Yizhi search for a way to escape their situation and hopefully bring down a society built on the subjugation and murder of women. Iron Widow is angry, subversive, and empowering and I enjoyed reading it even though it’s grim from start to finish. It does feature a proper love triangle though, which is a nice bright spot in all the darkness. (Dark YA Fantasy)

BOOKS - GRAPHIC NOVELS

Lore Olympus: Volume One by Rachel Smythe
Lore Olympus is a retelling of the Hades/Persephone myth with excellent artwork and a thoughtful narrative, set in a nebulous sci-fi-ish/ancient Greek-ish Olympus. While Lore Olympus is romantic and mostly lighthearted, it is definitely an adult story and weaves in dark elements of the Greek myths, depicting the selfishness of the gods and the lack of agency afforded to female characters. Content warning: Lore Olympus Volume One contains a depiction of sexual assault and gaslighting which is hard to read. It’s not graphic, but it is very emotionally honest and grounded in reality. (Fantasy/Mythology)

Estranged and The Changeling King by Ethan M Aldridge
Estranged is about two boys, Childe, a human that was kidnapped as a baby and grew up in the land of faeries, and Edmund, the faerie changeling that was left in his place. Neither child feels like they belong, for obvious reasons, and when a Childe’s royal family is turned into rats by a nefarious villain, he seeks out his counterpart in the human world for help. The Changeling King continues the story, with the boys and their allies trying to restore magic to the faerie kingdom when it starts to disappear. Ethan Aldridge’s watercolor illustrations are wonderful and perfectly match the magic and adventure of the story. (YA)

The Witch Boy by Molly Knox Ostertag
In a close knit community where boys shape-shift and girls learn magic, Aster yearns to be a witch even though “boy’s don’t learn magic”. But it is Aster’s magic and his friendship with a non-magical outsider that saves the day when a dangerous spirit starts attacking the other kids. Through this YA story of magic and spirits, Molly Knox Ostertag beautifully illustrates the dangers of toxic masculinity and gender stereotypes. (YA)

OTHER FAVORITES
The Crossroads at Midnight by Abby Howard
Blacksad by Juan Díaz Canales and Juanjo Guarnido
The Girl from the Sea by Molly Knox Ostertag
Salt Magic by Hope Larson and Rebecca Mock


PODCASTS

Ologies
Each episode of Ologies has host Alie Ward sitting down and charmingly chatting with scientists about their various fields of study, covering topics like turtles, squid, shipwrecks, veterinary medicine, dancing spiders, bad knees, and crow funerals. I love Alie’s sense of humor and constant fascination with the things she’s asking about. So check this one out if you want to laugh and also learn cool facts about gar fish.

MUSIC

If I Can’t Have Love, I Want Power by Halsey
I’m a big fan of Halsey and I had their super atmospheric and slightly haunting album on repeat for months.

Montero by Lil Naz X
A great mix of genres and styles that go from cheeky rap to super personal ballad to impossibly catchy pop.

Boyfriend Dungeon & Gris Soundtracks
I frequently found myself needing chill background music to listen to while working this year, and the soundtracks for Boyfriend Dungeon and Gris were what I turned on the most. Boyfriend Dungeon is an excellent combination of chill, synthy pop music and sword-based pun lyrics. Gris is fully instrumental, again featuring a synthy sound, combining big orchestral drama and chill emotional vibes.


ART

If I’m doing the math right, I think I made 40 new pieces in 2021. Not too bad.